Frida Kahlo

Mexican painter

Modern influential 121 sayings

Sayings by Frida Kahlo

The most important of all is to laugh at yourself.

Uncertain — Letter
Humorous Unverifiable

I am not a surrealist. I have never painted dreams. I have painted my own reality.

1939 — Interview, variation on a common theme
Humorous Unverifiable

I wish I could write all the things I feel, but I can't.

Uncertain — Letter
Humorous Unverifiable

I am not an alcoholic. I am a drunkard.

Uncertain — Often attributed, exact context hard to pinpoint.
Humorous Unverifiable

I want to be able to love and be loved.

Uncertain — Letter
Humorous Unverifiable

I want to paint as much as I want, and I want to be able to live with my husband.

Uncertain — Interview
Humorous Unverifiable

I am not afraid of anything. I am a strong woman.

Uncertain — Letter/Interview
Humorous Unverifiable

My life has been one long series of accidents.

Uncertain — Interview
Humorous Unverifiable

I suffered two grave accidents in my life... One in which a streetcar knocked me down... The other accident is Diego.

1940s — Describing her marriage to Diego Rivera
Controversial Unverifiable

Painting completed my life.

Undated, approximate mid-20th century — From her letters or diary, expressing the fulfillment she found in art.
Philosophical Unverifiable

At the end of the day, we can endure much more than we think we can.

Undated, approximate mid-20th century — A reflection on human resilience.
Philosophical Unverifiable

Nothing is worth more than laughter. It is strength to laugh and to abandon oneself, to be light. Tragedy is the most ridiculous thing.

1944-1954 (during her diary keeping) — From her diary, reflecting her resilient spirit.
Philosophical Unverifiable

I tried to drown my sorrows, but the damned things learned how to swim, and now I am overwhelmed by this decent and good feeling.

1944-1954 (during her diary keeping) — From her diary, a poignant and paradoxical statement on dealing with pain.
Philosophical Confirmed

Only one mountain can know the core of another mountain.

Undated, approximate mid-20th century — From her letters to Diego Rivera, a poetic expression of deep understanding between two souls.
Philosophical Unverifiable

I wish I could do whatever I liked behind the curtain of 'madness'. Then: I'd arrange flowers, all day long, I'd paint; pain, love and tenderness, I would laugh as much as I feel like at the stupidity of others, and they would all say: 'Poor thing, she's crazy!' (Above all I would laugh at my own stupidity.) I would build my world which while I lived, would be in agreement with all the worlds. The day, or the hour, or the minute that I lived would be mine and everyone else's – my madness would not be an escape from reality.

1944-1954 (during her diary keeping) — From her diary, expressing a desire for freedom from societal constraints and a different kind of re…
Philosophical Unverifiable

You didn't understand what I am. I am love. I am pleasure. I am essence. I am an idiot. I am tenacious. I am. I simply am.

1944-1954 (during her diary keeping) — From her diary, a raw and powerful statement of self-definition.
Philosophical Unverifiable

I was born a bitch. I was born a painter. I was born fucked. But I was happy in my way.

1944-1954 (during her diary keeping) — From her diary, a raw and defiant self-description.
Philosophical Unverifiable

My body is filled with you for days and days. you are the mirror of the night. the violent flash of lightning. the dampness of the earth. The hollow of your armpits is my shelter. my fingers touch your blood.

Undated, approximate mid-20th century — From her love letters to Diego Rivera, a highly visceral and intimate expression of love.
Philosophical Unverifiable

Fall in love with yourself, with life, and then with whoever you want.

Undated, approximate mid-20th century — From her diary or letters, a powerful message of self-love and living authentically.
Philosophical Unverifiable

It's not love, or tenderness, or affection, it's life itself, my life, that I found what I saw it in your hands, in your month and in your breasts. I have the taste of almonds from your lips in my mouth. Our worlds have never gone outside. Only one mountain can know the core of another mountain.

Undated, approximate mid-20th century — From her diary, a deeply personal and philosophical reflection on love and connection with Diego Riv…
Philosophical Unverifiable