"We've been socialized to believe that we're not worthy of love unless we're performing, producing, and pleasing."

"If you're a woman, all they can think about your relationship with a politician is that you're either sleeping with him or advising him about clothes."

"Some of us are becoming the men we want (wanted) to marry."

"Women are becoming the men we wanted to marry. (But too few men are becoming the women they wanted to marry)"

"The surest way to be a feminist is to be a woman and to refuse to be silenced."