Eleanor Roosevelt

First Lady, human rights

Modern influential 96 sayings

Sayings by Eleanor Roosevelt

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

1937 — This Is My Story
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The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.

1954 — My Day column
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Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.

approx. 1940s-1950s — Widely attributed, though exact source debated, often linked to 'My Day' column themes.
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It is not fair to ask of others what you are not willing to do yourself.

1943 — My Day column
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When you cease to make a contribution, you begin to die.

1950 — My Day column
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Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give.

1953 — My Day column
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We are not here to curse the darkness, but to light the candle that can guide us through that darkness to a safe and sane future.

1947 — Speech at the United Nations
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To handle yourself, use your head; to handle others, use your heart.

1960 — You Learn by Living: Eleven Keys for a More Fulfilling Life
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It is a waste of time to be angry about my troubles. I must look for a solution.

1940 — My Day column
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I think, at a child's birth, if a mother could ask a fairy godmother to endow it with the most useful gift, that gift would be curiosity.

1958 — My Day column
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The battle for the civil rights of black people has to be fought by black people themselves.

1957 — Interview with Edward R. Murrow, 'See It Now'
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I have sometimes thought that it was a good thing that I was not a man, for I should have been a very restless man.

1937 — This Is My Story
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The giving of love is an education in itself.

1960 — You Learn by Living: Eleven Keys for a More Fulfilling Life
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I think that the greatest contribution that I could make would be to help people to think for themselves.

approx. 1950s — Interview with a journalist
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Understanding is a two-way street.

1952 — My Day column
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The mind of man is capable of anything, because everything is in it, all the past as well as all the future.

approx. 1950s — Attributed, possibly from a speech or essay.
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You can't just talk about it. You have to be about it.

approx. 1940s-1950s — Widely attributed, informal advice
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I have never felt that I was a particularly brilliant person, but I have always felt that I was a person who was willing to work hard.

1937 — This Is My Story
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Life was meant to be lived, and curiosity must be kept alive. One must never, for whatever reason, turn his back on life.

1958 — My Day column
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We grow in kindness when we act kindly.

1960 — You Learn by Living: Eleven Keys for a More Fulfilling Life
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